Hola Amigos del Internet!
I hope you're all doing absolutely amazing. How's fall treating you in your cities? Here, it's a crazy kind of beautiful. Some trees have donned vibrant red, while others shimmer in shades of yellow. Some stand bare, leafless, and then there are those unique ones that still hold onto a touch of green but sport fiery red tips, making them stand out in the crowd. It's a beautiful lesson that I'm still trying to grasp – that nature comes in a vast array of shapes, colors, and timings, and it's perfectly content with its diversity.
I had one of those moments again, where I felt like I didn't quite fit in. It's like I jump from box to box, and sometimes, out of the box altogether. I'm constantly moving and savoring the best of each moment. But, at times, life seems to demand that we be the same, laugh at the same things, have firm opinions, enjoy the same music – and to me, that just doesn't feel natural.
I remember my college days when I'd dress gothic one day, sporty the next, and hippie for a week, all just for fun and enjoyment. But people didn't always think that was okay. I truly believe this existence is a game, a dream where we can be everything, yet in the end, we are all part of the same infinite, magical essence. This realization is what saves me most of the time. Sometimes, I forget, and those moments can be painful. But usually, this awareness is my lifeline, reminding me that we transcend concepts, shapes, and ideas of who we are.
At the beginning of fall, I came across this beautiful quote that resonated with me:
It felt like a cool omen for the season. So, every time I feel "boxless," I simply let it go. I remember that the box is not real, separation is not real. I return to the mode where I'm always smiling inside because I know it's just a game.
Meanwhile, in this grand game, my brother is visiting, and soon, I'm taking a little break. I'll be traveling to a meditation retreat and to visit my family. That's why I haven't been painting like a mad artist these days. We're savoring this time together in nature, and I must confess, indulging in a lot of delicious food.
He's my baby brother, even though he's far from being a baby. I care about him immensely and love him to the moon and back. We've explored the beach, the lake, the waterfalls, the woods – basically everywhere in my tiny town, and we've had a fantastic time.
People ask me if I feel stressed because I'm not painting during these days, and the answer is a resounding no. Why? Because I absolutely love enjoying whatever the present moment offers. Right now, it's offering me precious time with my brother.
My secret to contentment is to be grateful for what's presented to me and not strive to live any moment other than the present one. This takes the pressure off everything else. If it's painting time, my awareness is dedicated to painting; if it's family time, I'm fully present there. Whatever the moment requires of me, I give it willingly. In return, I receive everything that the moment has to offer.
With that said, let's dive into our little
To Let Go: I'll always recommend meditation. It's the practice I've held dear since 2008. It's a never-ending journey of self-discovery, and it's not just about navigating life but truly savoring it.
To Explore: I wholeheartedly suggest exploring your own town. It might just be the nest of magical little corners where you can even find yourself, as I have! Look…
Recently, we visited the Nike Headquarters with a dear friend, and I discovered an intriguing world of sports, architecture, tales of Michael Jordan and, of course, LeBron James.
To Be Mentally and Physically Healthy: Now, don't think I've forgotten about my morning walks. No, I haven't. They might not always be at the crack of dawn, but I haven't skipped them. I genuinely encourage you to walk with no expectations – no exercise, weight, or time goals. It's almost like being Forrest Gump, and to quote Nike, 'just do it.' You'll be amazed at the wonders that a simple walk can work for you. Extra points if you can be fully present in the moment while walking.
And that's a wrap for today, my friends. I'll continue relishing the rain today and the delightful company of my baby brother.
I'll catch up with you all next Monday. In the meantime,
Love & Sparkles!!!